Imperatives & Politeness

The imperative tells someone what to do. We use it for commands, instructions, advice, and requests. Imperatives use the base form of the verb and usually have no subject: (You) Open the door.

Affirmative: Take a seat.  |  Negative: Don’t touch that.  |  Polite: Please wait here.

1) How to Form Imperatives

2) Common Uses

  1. Commands / Orders: Stop talking.
  2. Instructions / Recipes / Directions: Turn left. / Mix the sugar and butter.
  3. Advice / Suggestions: Try again. / Take an umbrella.
  4. Requests: Please email me today.

3) Politeness Strategies

Imperatives can sound friendly or rude depending on the words we add and our tone.

StrategyPatternExample
Use “please” Please + base verb Please close the window.
Softeners (just, a moment, a bit) Just + verb / verb + for a moment Just have a seat for a moment.
Positive framing Be careful… / Remember to… Be careful not to touch that.
Let’s (inclusive) Let’s + base verb Let’s begin the meeting.
Question-style requests Could you / Would you + base verb, please? Could you send the file, please?
Tone matters: A friendly voice and a smile make imperatives sound like requests, not orders. Add please, just, for a moment, if you can to sound softer.

4) Quick Comparison

Direct / RudePolite / Friendly
Shut the door.Please close the door.
Give me your pen.Could you lend me your pen, please?
Wait.Just wait a moment, please.
Don’t talk.Could you be quiet, please?

5) Common Mistakes

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